Stop being so Lazy !

I am totally gobsmacked at the laziness of some people.. really - why is it that human beings can be so lazy, lazy, lazy.

So, this morning on my way to work I had to stop off at a popular shopping centre, where the car parks are always choccas! I am not one to waste my valuable time in driving around for hours on end to ensure I get a car spot right outside the door so I don't have to walk so far.. I actually make a point of it by generally parking furthest away so, No.1 I can get a bit of exercise knocked over, and No.2 because I am not lazy and I don't have time to drive around and around a car park just to ensure I get that little bit closer to the entrance.

This morning, I parked in my little spot further away from the entrance so I could walk across to the shops, and whilst I was walking I notice a lady who had, for the last 5 minutes driven around and around the same little block of parking to see if a car would move so her lazy fat butt wouldn't have to walk an extra 100 metres.. and gee was a a coincidence that yes she was overweight, she looked tired and basically down right grumpy.. Go Figure.. I would be grumpy and tired too if I were carrying extra weight that I didn't need, and that I hadn't had a proper breakfast (I can only assume) and hadn't exercised that morning. For all I know she was probably late for work this morning due to hr lazy arse not just parking a little further away to save wasting time.

What is it with humans... they put so much energy into the unimportant things in life, yet waste so much time doing things such as driving around car parks.. complaining that its too cold to exercise or that I don't have time for breakfast... basically lazy, excuse makers that will most likely until they make permanent change, will be angry with the world.

I have always been against the old excuse maker... because so many are just that.. I know for one.. as I have said before, I am far from perfect.. but I don't make excuses anymore.. I used to a while back when I was the lazy person.. but now, I simply admit fault, I know I am totally 110% responsible for my own actions, thoughts and everything I do. I make my own decisions, I choose to do what I do and its up to me to make the best life for myself.. my happiness does not rely on my boyfriend, it does not rely on my friends or family, it does not rely on my job, my interests or anything else.. it relys on me taking full responsibility for everything I do. Its like a person having road rage... someone pulls out in front of you and you are nearly in an accident.. you play the blame game .. go on and on about it and get so uptight and angry about the situation and blame this total dickhead for almost causing an accident... its not your fault right? Well of course the stupid idiot pulling out in front of you cannot be helped.. however if you get totally worked up about the situation, yell and scream abuse and work yourself up to the point you get to work and whinge to everyone about it, think about it way to much and let it control your thoughts... its only going to start a snowball affect and get you in a totally negative mood for the day and yes most things start to go wrong for you when you are always negative and remain in that state of mind...

On the other hand.. in that situation... you could initially crack the sads and call the guy an idiot in your head.. but then... just get over it.. understand there is NOTHING you can do about it so dont waste anymore time thinking about it.. keep driving.. move on.. don't think about tit for a further second...

Or what about the moody, unhelpful shop assistant or waiter in a cafe.. how much can it piss you off when you get shitty service.. especially when they are hired to be a "customer service" employee... If I ever come across bad service anymore.. I don't whinge about it... I simply laugh about it in my head, and put it down to maybe they got no love last night in the sack and I don't go back to the place they were... simple.. it actually becomes funny when you think of why they could be moody.. have a laugh about it rather than get all worked up.. because really is it going to matter next week, next month, next year or in 5 years... I think not.

Start looking on the brighter side of life and stop making excuses - it totally works for me... stop taking life so seriously and just enjoy the moment.. its time for the world to lighten up.. both personally and physically I say!!

So next time I hear someone say "oh im time poor, I don thave time to exercise or eat well"... I will no longer get frustrated at their lack of taking responsibility.. I will just say in my head.. pfff oh well.. poor them.. they will always be large and unhealthy".. Poor them.. Boy oh boy they are missing out on how good it feels to be healthy!!